This SEXtember is all about the connection between pleasure and self-understanding.
Experiencing pleasure in different forms – whether it’s a gentle touch, dancing to your favourite music or the comforting smell of a loved one – helps us gain awareness of our bodies, emotions and needs, as well as our desires.
By understanding what feels good for you (and what doesn’t) you can more confidently set boundaries and feel empowered to promote personal safety and respect. This is where self-understanding meets pleasure.
From 16 to 27 September 2024, join us on this journey of self-curiosity. There’s something for everyone. Explore SEXtember and book your favourite events now!
LIVE: Take Note Podcast with University of Adelaide
THU 5 SEP | 02:00PM - 03:00PM
Join for a special live recording of the Take Note podcast to chat about what makes all of us normal in the world of sex (surprise: it’s everything!). This episode is about embracing positive sexuality, body positivity, and authenticity within us and in our relationships.
Elephant Ed Workshop: Sexual Relationships
THU 5 SEP | 05:30PM - 06:30PM
In this one-hour workshop, explore different relationships, how to navigate peer pressure, and learn communication and negotiation skills for healthy & safe sexual experiences.
PASH Peers @ Toga Party
THU 12 SEP | 07:00PM - 12:00AM
Temporary tattoos - Check. Condoms and lube - Check. PASH Peers at Toga Party - CHECK! Here for fun and freebies, PASH are down from 7pm to 9pm. See you there, Eros and Aphrodite.
Elephant Ed Workshop: Porn vs Reality
THU 12 SEP | 05:30PM - 06:30PM
Critically discuss mainstream pornography, its commercial nature, addiction and key distortions of body image, sexual behaviour & gender roles in this workshop from Elephant Ed.
Living Poetry Project
All SEXtember | All day
We asked four students to delve into their lived experience, who took inspiration from their own story and relationships, to compose a written piece to share with you during SEXtember. These words are their living poetry.
Sweat with Pride @ UNSW FAC
TUE 17 SEP - THU 26 SEP
Break a sweat, calm and centre, or get your groove on with a range of activities to get you moving! Embrace a healthier, happier you with UNSW's Fitness and Aquatic Centre.
"How do you like it?" - Clay Connections Workshop
TUES 17 SEP | 4:30PM - 7:00PM
FRI 27 SEP | 4:30PM - 7:00PM
Consent is as simple as a cup of tea! Join us to mould your own teacup from clay, while sipping tea and discussing how to reshape conversations around intimacy and consent.
Queer Sex Education
TUE 17 SEP | 06:00PM - 07:00PM
We’ve partnered with the University of Queensland's Naomi Hutchings, sexologist, to talk all about sex, sexual health and relationships through a queer lens.
Time to Test | Free STI testing
WED 18 SEP | 11:00AM - 3:00PM
Join us for Outreach STI Testing Day, where sexual health is a 'pun'ch above the rest! Get free, confidential testing, educational resources, and fun freebies. Our 'test'-tacular team will answer your questions and provide support. Remember, safe is always 'sexy'!
Love Island @ Roundhouse
WED 18 SEP | 05:30PM - 06:30PM
Dating apps just not cutting it? Let's add a little spice! Arc's back with Love Island, UNSW's very own live dating show for students. Free for Arc members. See you there.
Intercultural Conversations on Dating
THU 19 SEP | 05:00PM - 07:00PM
Curious about dating in Australia? Want to know the do's and don't' from a panel who have learnt the hard way? Join us for free food, laughs and prizes for international students.
Elephant Ed Workshop: Pleasure
THU 19 SEP | 05:30PM - 06:30PM
What does pleasure mean? Explore how to create safe, pleasurable experiences through consent & communication, debunk sex myths and discuss the orgasm gap and falsehoods in porn in this one-hour workshop.
SEXtember Trivia Night @ Roundhouse
TUE 24 SEP | 05:30PM - 06:30PM
We're adding a little pizzaz and a sprinkle of mischief to Trivia Tuesdays at the Roundhouse. See you there!
SEXtember Hump Day @ The Quad
WED 25 SEP | 10:00AM - 04:00PM
At our biggest event in SEXtember we’ve got loads of fun games, awesome prizes, and delicious snacks to keep the vibe going strong. Plus, we’re offering FREE sexual health tests for everyone. Come on down, have a blast, and stay safe this sunny SEXtember!
REALationships with Georgia Grace the Sex Coach
TUE 24 SEP | 07:00PM - 08:00PM
Join us for an online Q&A with relationship and sex ed expert Georgia Grace as we explore your questions around situationship, chemistry, pleasure, porn and what's expected of us in the bedroom - nothing's off the table.
Breaking the Cycle - She Is Not Your Rehab
TUE 24 SEP | 12:00PM - 01:00PM
How do we tackle gendered-based violence through a mental health lens? Matt Brown, TEDx speaker and author of She Is Not Your Rehab will discuss this in this special webinar. Registrations essential!
MATE Bystander Workshop
24, 26 & 27 SEP | Various times
Being an active bystander means contributing to a world that is safe, equal, and free of gender-based violence. Come out of this workshop feeling empowered to respectfully challenge problematic behaviours, and show support to your community.
Elephant Ed Workshop: Inclusivity
THU 26 SEP | 05:30PM - 06:30PM
In this inclusivity workshop, you'll learn more about the LGBTQIA+ acronym, gender and attraction dynamics, and critical analysis of discrimination, with a focus on bystander intervention and creating safe spaces.
STI Testing hub
Getting a sexual health check at least once a year should be a routine part of your healthcare. Getting tested regularly is quick and easy.
Sexual Health hub
Whether you are sexually active or not, it's always best to be prepared about maintaining your sexual health. This a good place to start.
Gendered Violence portal
Sexual and gendered violence of all forms is a pervasive reality in today's world. UNSW recognises gendered violence is still too prevalent across Australian Universities.
Consent Matters
Watch four UNSW students in conversation with consent advocate Chanel Contos discussing consent, perpetrators of sexual violence, trauma responses and what we can do from here.
Sexual Health and Healthy Relationships 101
Missed out on sexual health education? Designed for international students, this Moodle course aims to help you improve your sexual health knowledge.
This SEXtember we're bringing you more than just events but tonnes of resources too! Whether it's a playlist to get you in the mood, brushing up on your sex-ed or learning more about the world of kink, porn and all that spicy stuff, we've got you covered
SEXtember Spotify Playlists
Music helps you get into the right mind-set for whatever you're feeling. Get in the mood with these SEXtember themed playlists curated by Music Performance UNSW.
Porn and Erotica
New to porn or looking for some new ways to get in the mood? Head to our Porn and Erotica page to learn what exactly is porn, how to engage with it ethically and expand your erotic content beyond what's available on PornHub.
International Students Health Hub
Are you an international student looking for advice and information on sexual health? Check out the International Student Health Hub with carefully curated resources just for you!
Play Safe
Everything you need to know for a confident and healthy sex life. This website covers the A - Z of sex lingo, and all the details on protection, testing and treatment.
SBS Inclusion Program
The SBS Inclusion Program is designed to give all current students and staff core skills and knowledge of inclusion in general, as well as around specific diversity dimensions.
How We Help You
University can often bring unexpected challenges, but we're not looking to make things harder. We've made things simple so you can find the support you need when you need it most.
SEXtember Sexual Wellbeing Series
It's time for the sex-ed your never received in school! Join Georgia Grace, NORMAL's in house sex coach, for this series created specifically for UNSW students.
Normal presents The Modern Guide to Sex
Getting familiar with basics of sex can be a lot if this isn’t something that’s spoken about in your culture. Normal breaks down the birds and the bees and answers some commons questions.
Normal presents The Body Confidence Course
This free course is all about elevating your body confidence and getting comfortable with yourself.
Content Context: Conversations about consent, relationships, sex and sexuality can sometimes be difficult. UNSW has a gendered violence support team who can be contacted through the gendered violence portal. Alternatively, you can talk to someone who is trained to help, through free and confidential support services and 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732).